He’s the “measure twice, cut once” kinda guy who reminds me to “never half-ass anything in life”. A natural story-teller and good listener, experienced fisherman, Mr. Fix it, and self-proclaimed politician at the dinner table. Watching him work on numerous projects grew my interest in making things with my own hands. Grandpa had introduced and patiently taught me how to use different types of tools for different purposes.

All the Mlynarek grandkids are VERY familiar with his favorite question: “Tell me something I don’t know about you?” To which any one of us would respond with an emphasized, “Uhh…”, or unenthusiastic reply. It wasn’t until I started working with little 7 year olds at camp and nervous high school freshmen that the familiar question came to mind again. In asking others, I began to better understand the gift of getting to know another and making them feel valued. 

I am very thankful for his godly example and influence on my life and many others. 

What had initially stirred your interest in making things with your hands?

 “I had three uncles who lived on the same street when I was a kid: Uncle Mike, Uncle Paul, and Uncle Emery. Uncle Paul had worked for Burroughs corporation as a pallet maker. It seemed like every Christmas he would make something out of that spare wood. His first project that I remember him making was a little white church that could be placed under a Christmas tree. It had a light inside to make it glow and glitter on the roof to resemble snow. He gave one to my mom and his other nieces. Every Christmas he had a different gift idea. Another one I remember was a swing for dolls that he gifted to my sisters. It had all kinds of different colors and everything could move. It was a really nice toy that my sisters would enjoy. After giving gifts to the family, he would make more and sell them at the local bar just around the corner from where we lived. 

What were some of your first projects?

My first projects were things around the house and making picture frames. One project I specifically remember started from finding a piece of plastic that looked like the “fleur de lis”. We had a tri-level house, and going down the stairs there was a big empty wall. So, I took a piece of wood, painted it, put the “fleur de lis” on it, framed it, and hung it there. It was so simple. Built a few dog houses and a rabbit cage. As my brothers and I grew up, got married, and bought houses, there was always a need for something… a picnic table, a patio, a porch, dining tables. If there was a need, you’d call your brothers. They would come over and help make it. Since we were married young and didn’t have any money, we made things ourselves. All we needed was each other, a good idea, and good tools. What we didn’t have in experience, we had teamwork and had fun. We learned together, made mistakes, and survived. It brought out our creativity and taught us to solve problems. 

How did you progress in skill?

You have someone who encourages you, someone who helps you, and then you go out and do it by yourself. Failures are not failures, you just learn from them. I also learned from watching other people and good TV shows. Learning how to use tools over time and how to use them for different purposes. 

What was one of your favorite home projects?

A 4×4 coffee table with wood inlays.

What is a favorite handmade gift you’ve given and received from someone?

Do you remember the Christmas story movie? I made Uncle Jeremy a crate that said, “FRAGILE” and I attached a letter on it with a “major award” given to the Mlynarek family. I put it on his front porch with a spotlight on it. A favorite gift I’ve received from someone was a handmade reindeer that Jeremy made in high school for Christmas. 

Why is making things with your own hands meaningful?

Because it is an extension of yourself, it tells the receiver that you thought of them in a special way. Every time I’m working on something – I’m thinking how much I hope they are going to like it — it lets them know they are special. 

What is your favorite tool?

The most useful tool I own is a good battery operated drill. For wood, it would be a good table saw and a router. Next, the Kreg jig. 

Have you ever injured yourself while using any tools?

I was reckless with a table saw one day and a piece of wood hit me in the eye. Could have taken my eye out. It happened because I was rushing. 

What is something you learned along the way that changed how you make things?

Learning how to make a Kreg jig changed the way I joined wood. There are also great resources on the internet. 

What is a project you have wanted to work on but never had the time to do?

Learn how to use a router more, since there are so many different bits and ways to cut wood. 

What makes something built well and why is that important?

The material you use… If you want to make something that will last, use a hardwood, disposables can be softwood. Secondly, the construction of it. The joinery matters because if it is not joined properly/wisely, it won’t last. Making sure your corners are square, measuring correctly. You build something well so it will last. 

How does building something well relate to life? 

Anything you make is a reflection of yourself. Making things that can be used, that are functional, visually appealing, and appreciated by others gives the satisfaction of a job well done. 

How has learning this skill influenced your eye for recognizing something of value/quality?

I have a greater appreciation for the talents of others, as I can recognize how much time and skill goes into making something. You begin to recognize quality when you see it. Stuff you see from stores like Ikea is cheap and not built to last. You go to an Amish furniture place, you’ll see real workmanship. 

Any advice for future “makers”?

(*Laughs) Keep a log of who borrows your tools. 

Any closing remarks?

We all have a responsibility to pass along family treasures and traditions. Appreciate and share in the joy of others in completing projects. Do a good job, that’s all. 

Now, lastly, the most important question… Who is your favorite grandchild? 

(*laughs)